Someone unban him already. Yes, he might delete everything, but it's better to be able to talk to him through PMs than it is to not talk to him at all.
Banning the account was the right thing to do imo since he was being forced to do stuff on it.
It really makes me mad and also worried but there is nothing I can do. :(
Yeah, like Zyzzyzus said, what can we do? At this point, all we can do is hope for the best, unless if anybody has other ways of contacting him, which I certainly don't.
I'm not gonna risk trying to contact him elsewhere and I suggest most of us here don't. It is ok for maybe those he was closest to but I don't wanna risk him losing access to even more places.
two years ago someone from the kongregate forums named zamininc created a thousand alt accounts and heavily spammed these forums with nsfw pictures. it was an absolute disaster and for two weeks or so the admins here had to disable registering accounts until they could put in tighter security measures.
@explodingcamel: no the zamininc thing was indeed quite a long time ago. back before i died, which itself was about a year ago. unless youre talking about zaminincs second coming or something.
@CWS
the thing is, none of us has actual evidence of what has happened to him expect the few things BC told us, that's it.
and no childcare service or any authority will act just by that.
if that were enough they would have done something quite a while ago when i talked about his issues to them (months ago already) but as long as he does not contact them himself there is nothing that will be done. he got the phone numbers, the email addresses and websites to choose the best way for him but he chose to not contact them obviously... that was all we can do for him besides encouraging words which he received a lot
all that's left is hoping things will work out somehow.
sorry for that reality-punch in your faces... but that's how it is.
It is sad but that is the reality for most abuse. Unless there is another witness to it that could make a statement they can't really do anything without evidence. Yet abusers are often very good at hiding this and controlling the abused to the point they start to believe they deserve it so wont tell the authorities.
Blocking him from here is just part of the control.
The thing is that banning him prevents the real BC from using PMs. That means he's entirely locked out from DNF. It's literally handing his dad the victory.
If we want to help BC, at this point, we'd have to call the British equivalent of Child Protective Services or at least call somewhere we can get him foster care at this point. It's our only hope, sans him magically breaking the parental block...
Nonononono. Don't delete your shit. Fucking don't. It's the biggest mistake you can make, bud. Stop that. Don't do it. You will regret it, and it's all just going to go even more downhill than it's already going now. Stop, I command you.
Either BC was too lazy to do the entirety of his 5,000 or so comments, or his father really did get on and didn't do shit with the rest of the comments he made.
Or his father was too lazy to delete all the other comments too.
...Honestly, if anything, he's being pressured by his oppressive/abusive father, or he feels like he has to be normal to fit in with his peers at school.
I hope you realise pretty much everyone at school who says "go kill yourself" or the like are probably people who will never succeed at anything really.
Just because they get A's on exams doesn't necessarily mean they're going to instantly make something of themselves.
Ultimately, if they make something of themselves, but are cunts to others, they're probably worse than a person who is nice to others but hasn't made something of themselves could ever be.
That, and if a report card said everything about the future a person could have, we'd have so many goddamn Albert Einsteins running around and the world being innovated every fucking nanosecond.
This reminds me of the end of the Breakfast club when you see a picture of the yearbook and it says, "Most likely to succeed" and the guy in the picture is the Janitor in the movie.
I don't really know what I could say/do to help you or what would harm you despite my good intentions. But I just want to say that however bad you think your influence on this community is, a lot of people still have fond memories of their time with you on this forum.
Nobody here wants you to leave, and the people IRL who think you should kill yourselves are too insignificant and will hardly matter to you in the future to care about.
Nope. Do not commit suicide. I'll admit it: I'm probably a worse person than you are IRL. Because you are a good person. If anyone should be killing themselves, it would be me. But I shouldn't. Even pedophiles and serial killers should't kill themselves. Listen to me: You deserve to live. You know you should stay alive. DON'T LET DEPRESSION GET TO YOU. THIS IS NOT WHO YOU ARE. YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON.
I'm sorry I just have no choice but to kill myself now.
Everyone at school wants it. I need it. It'll be good for their health
It's impossible to call me human when I'm the fucking worst thing to exist and a poison that weighs down everything
Also.. forgot to tell you one more thing:
Unlike me.. you are part of a lot of things on Dashnet. You're one of the highest ranked Dashnet users that existed. And last of all, you're a good guy. Never forget the last part.
If you really want to leave, then go. I have no right to force you to stay if you truly don't want to. But do not suicide. Even if you think that it's the only option, don't do it. It's not worth it.
But if you're leaving because you think we hate you, that you contribute nothing to the forum, that is not true. Nobody on this forum hates you, and they likely never will. Just drill it in your head to the best of your ability that you do contribute to the forum, that you do have many friends. You wouldn't be on the all time leaderboards if you weren't. So stay, then, if that's the only reason why, because there is no reason to believe those things whatsoever.
Hope you're still alive, man. I just hope you're busy with stuff and need to be away from the forum for a while or something, hopefully nothing bad happened...